Following Your Fascinations
Selfhood doesn’t arrive as a thunderclap of destiny. It emerges step by step, as you honor the fascinations that pull you. Each spark you follow shapes the map of who you are becoming.
Philosophy
The Abundance of Trying
In trying, we discover something larger than just results: we discover abundance. Life overflows with chances to reach, to create, to risk, to love. Some call it profusion, others call it bounty, but the meaning is the same: effort itself is a richness we get to experience. The act of attempting — even when imperfect, even when uncertain — is one of life’s greatest privileges. To strive toward something beyond survival is how we honor the miracle of existence.
Three Daily Practices for Fulfillment
Life is too brief to complicate. The path to fulfillment is not hidden in philosophy textbooks or locked away in monasteries. It can begin with three simple practices: yes, savor, remember. Say yes to life. Savor what’s given. Remember it won’t last. Do these daily, and you will have seized not just the day, but the gift of existence itself.
True Norths of Fulfillment
False compasses like wealth, status, and shallow happiness are easy to chase but leave us empty. True norths are quieter, but they lead us home. So name your purpose. Follow your fascinations. Savor beauty whenever it interrupts you. Because these are the guiding stars of fulfillment — and life is too precious to navigate without them.
Life’s Feast of Experience
Life is not stingy. It lays out a table so full of flavors, colors, sounds, and sensations that one lifetime is not enough to sample them all. We may struggle, we may suffer, but even in hardship, the world keeps handing us delights.
The Meaning of Life
We don’t need a single answer to the “meaning of life.” We need a thousand lived answers to the meaning in our lives. Beauty, purpose, and resilience are three of them. And perhaps that’s enough: to live in a way that, when we look back, we feel we did justice to the improbable gift of being here at all.
Gratitude as Mental Maintenance
Life isn’t always smooth. Stress builds, anxiety spikes, and despair can creep in. But gratitude for simply being alive acts like maintenance for the soul. It’s coolant in the overheated engine of existence. It steadies us when the road feels rough.
Tools for Shaking Off Numbness
We go through our days dulled by routine, lulled by sameness, anesthetized by the narcotic of familiarity. The gift of life—this once-in-eternity chance to exist—becomes something we sleepwalk through. The good news? Numbness is not permanent. It can be interrupted. It can be shaken off. You can step back into your life with fresh eyes and a sense of wonder.
When Gratitude Isn’t Enough
Gratitude is powerful. But it is not always enough. It cannot erase grief, nor should it try. True strength is knowing when to grieve and when to give thanks. True perspective is allowing both to matter.
Soul Therapy
Life wears us thin. Worries fray us, routines numb us, losses bruise us. Left alone with only pressure and demand, we shatter. But we are not left alone. Human beings, from the dawn of history, have discovered a thousand ways to restore ourselves — ways of tending our soul.
The Practices of Appreciation
Gratitude is more than a passing feeling. It’s a way of seeing, and like any skill, it can be trained. Without practice, appreciation slips away; life fades into background noise. With practice, we stay awake to the wonder of being alive.
Three Takes on Independence
Life is short, and conformity is tempting. But mortality clarifies: there is no rehearsal. You only get this one chance. To waste it on mimicry is to waste it altogether. Trust thyself. Live deliberately. Will yourself — and others — to be free. Altogether, these lead you, and those around you, to a life more fully lived.
Three Practices for Finding Ourselves
Finding ourselves isn’t a one-time revelation. It’s a rhythm: solitude, risk, story. Again and again. Don’t wait for lightning. Begin with what’s near: a walk, a brave step, a few honest sentences.
Risks Worth Taking
The risks worth taking are not reckless stunts or shallow thrills. They are the risks that enlarge us: to love, to create, to change. Yes, they expose us to pain. But they also open us to meaning. And when we look back, it won’t be the guarded moments we remember. It will be the leaps.
How Death Sharpens Life
Mortality is not just the end of life. It is a frame that enhances life’s beauty and value. When we remember that our time is limited, we stop wasting it. We seize days. We live true to ourselves. We treat each sunrise as urgent.
The Triad of False Compasses
False compasses tempt us because they are easy to measure. Bank balances, applause, comfort levels — these give quick feedback. But quick feedback is not the same as true direction.
Pride and Mojo
There is a kind of joy that doesn’t come from sunsets, or music, or even love. It comes from something quieter: the simple satisfaction of feeling at home in your own skin. It’s the moment you stand a little taller because you did what you said you would do. It’s the glow of competence after solving a problem. It’s the inner warmth of knowing you’re living in line with your values.
The Meaningfulness of Our Life
Since the beginning of philosophy, humans have asked, What is the meaning of life? We want to know if the universe has assigned us a role, if there is a script we are supposed to follow, if some higher authority has written purpose into the fabric of existence. But the question, as often framed, may be misleading. It suggests there must be a meaning of life — a single answer for everyone, handed down from outside. What if, instead, the real treasure comes from the meaning in life — the significance we create, notice, and savor while we are here?
At Least We’ve Had Life
There’s a simple truth that we overlook far too easily: no matter what else happens—failure, disappointment, even tragedy—we’ve already won by having lived at all.
Living in Your Final Hour
Imagine this: you are in the final hour of your life. Not in some distant, abstract sense, but right now. You feel the clock running down. You know there will be no extensions, no extra innings. What rises in your heart? What suddenly seems irrelevant? What suddenly shines with unbearable beauty?
Friends With Ourselves
We live in a culture that sells us on permanent positivity. Motivational posters, Instagram captions, self-help gurus — all whisper (or shout): “If you’re not happy, something is wrong with you.” But expecting perpetual happiness is unrealistic, and worse, it pressures us to fake it.
Managing Perspective
Life shrinks and expands depending on the frame we use. A small setback, viewed up close, feels like the end of the world. Pull back the frame, and the same event becomes a blip, a footnote in a larger story.
The Balancing Gift of Gratitude
Desire drives us. We strive, we chase, we imagine new possibilities. Without desire, civilization would stall. But desire alone can also leave us restless, always chasing the next horizon, always frustrated with the gap between what we have and what we want. That is where gratitude comes in. Not as a replacement for desire — but as its balance. Gratitude steadies us. It keeps us from mistaking every delay for despair. It reorients us toward the miracle that is already around us.
The Compass of Inner Authority
From the moment we’re born, voices crowd around us, telling us who we should be. Parents, teachers, bosses, influencers, friends. Some offer wisdom. Others project their fears. All of them create noise.
When Fascinations Change
Many of us secretly worry that shifting interests means we lack seriousness. If we loved something once, shouldn’t we love it forever? Isn’t consistency the mark of a steady character? But life isn’t a courtroom where past testimony binds us forever. It’s a living story, always being revised. To change fascinations is not betrayal. It’s an honest response to growth.
The Art of Living With Orientation
Every life, whether admitted or not, circles around a question: How should I live? We try wealth, status, comfort, distraction — but none of these hold steady. They are like compasses that spin in circles. The real task is to find orientation: a destination to aim for, and a compass to guide us there.
The Pandemic of Cynicism
You can see it in the eyes of people on the subway, in office hallways, even in your own mirror some mornings: the dullness of cynicism. It’s not anger. It’s not despair. It’s something flatter, quieter, more corrosive. It’s the gray fog of giving up on passion.
The Triumph of Our Story
It is one thing to exist. It is another to know that our existence has unfolded as a story — unique, unrepeatable, ours alone. No one else will ever live your exact combination of days. No one else will walk through the same blend of joys, sorrows, loves, losses, fascinations, and triumphs. Billions have lived before you, billions live now, and billions will come after. Yet your story is singular.
The Preciousness of Our Personal Taste of Life
Each of us carries an invisible treasury — the moments, memories, and meanings that belong to us alone. Even if no one else knows them, even if no history book records them, they shine with value because we experienced them.
Congratulations, You’re Alive
Congratulations. If you’re reading this, you’ve already won. Not the lottery that fills your bank account or the raffle that hands you a free vacation—but something infinitely rarer: the lottery of existence itself. Out of stardust, out of rocks, out of all the never-born possibilities of the universe—you get to be alive.
The Oasis and the Return
There are days when the world is a desert: glare, heat, no shade. On those days we don’t need pep talks; we need water. And part of staying sane is remembering that the water exists — even when we’re too tired to walk to it.
Balancing Life’s Opposites
We long for simplicity. If only life could be one thing — constant peace, endless joy, steady certainty. But life is not one thing. It is a symphony of opposites: quiet and noise, rest and striving, solitude and connection.
The Price of Independence
Independence is often celebrated in slogans. We hear lines about “being yourself” as if it were simple, even glamorous. But anyone who has tried knows: true independence has a price.
The Uniqueness of Fascinations
When people talk about their interests, they often downplay them. “Oh, it’s just a hobby.” “It’s nothing important.” But what captivates us is rarely just anything. Our fascinations are fingerprints — distinctive marks of who we are.
